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Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Thoughts about the end of pregnancy

As this pregnancy comes to an end, I sit here reflecting back on the past 9 months of our lives.

May: Finding out we were pregnant in the ER, only to be told that the pregnancy wouldn't make it since my abdominal pain indicated that it was an ectopic pregnancy.

June: Helping my parents celebrate their 35th wedding anniversary in Italy, along with my sister and brother-in-law; seeing the baby's heartbeat 2 days after we returned from our vacation

July: Enjoying the summer with a side trip with friends to float the river and see a friend play AAA baseball

August: Transitioning to life not as an elementary teacher... It was more difficult than I thought it was going to be.

September: Finding out that we are having a little boy - the first boy grandchild on Jason's side, first grandchild on my side

October: Babymoon/ business trip to San Diego - our first time to travel to California

November: Showers, holidays, and weekend getaways to see friends and family

December: Child birth education classes, pre-term labor, "modified bed rest," a quiet Christmas, and false labor

January: Lots of dates, spending time together just the two of us and with friends, tying up loose ends

It has been a wonderful nine months.  We look forward to the next 18 years with Wade!

Things I will miss about pregnancy:
  • Feeling Wade move around in my belly - the tiny little movements, hiccups, and even the huge kicks and punches
  • Unlimited massages from Jason
  • Expectant Mother parking
  • People asking about my bundle of joy on the way... it's a great conversation starter!
  • Sleeping late, naps, and long showers
  • Getting to set my own schedule
  • People always offering to help me with anything I need (especially Jason, my parents, and friends)
  • Always having an excuse if I need one...ha!
Things I will NOT miss about pregnancy:
  • Swollen feet and legs
  • Maternity clothes... you can only wear the same outfit so many times!
  • Sleeping on my side with a body pillow...I can't wait to sleep on my stomach again.
  • Stomach skin so tight it feels like it will explode
  • Not being able to put on shoes and socks
  • Not being able to work out (since my stint on "modified bed rest")... I'm ready for some exercise!
I can't say that I'm one of those women who "just loves being pregnant." But I do know that Monday will bring about huge change in the Reinhardt world.  Jason and I are ready.   

(But bless Brinkley's heart... we're afraid that he's not going to know what's hit him.   Pray that he transitions well.  He's very important to us and our family!)

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